What do you think of when you hear the word Mistletoe? Most people think of the holidays and kissing. I looked up the custom and found it described in Wikipedia.... ~According to an old Christmas custom, a man and a woman who meet under a hanging of mistletoe were obliged to kiss. The custom was described in 1820 by American author, Washington Irving in his writing, The Sketch Book of Geoffrey Crayon, Gent.: The mistletoe is still hung up in farm-houses and kitchens at Christmas, and the young men have the privilege of kissing the girls under it, plucking each time a berry from the bush. When the berries are all plucked the privilege ceases. Growing up in Amherst, Ohio, I remember the small town holidays. The city streets were lit with large ornaments and ribbon. Mother liked to have parties at the house for her friends. Children were not invited, so we'd hide at the top of the stairs and sneak peeks. I clearly recall the homemade mistletoe that hung from the light fixture just inside the entryway. My mother made her own mistletoe. However, hers was made with candy. Using a styrofoam sphere, she wrapped a red velvet ribbon around the sphere. The ribbon could be used to also hang the mistletoe. Next, she'd use toothpicks inserted into small candy kisses to decorate the styrofoam. When the holidays were over, we'd have feast of chocolate. But now knowing the rules about picking the berries, I wonder if mom would have guests pick a piece of chocolate after stealing a kiss under the mistletoe. What are your memories of Mistletoe? Were you ever caught kissing underneath it? Or in my case...did you steal a "kiss"? In honor of the holidays, I'm giving away a $10 Amazon gift card to one lucky person who leaves a comment below along with their email address between today and Dec. 23rd (midnight) . Don't forget to follow the hop to the next stop to win another fabulous prize! Just follow the link at the bottom of the page! A Christmas Accident, an award winning holiday book! Only $0.99! Blurb: Expecting her first child, Sherri Wilder Davison wants nothing more than to spend time with her father over the holidays, but fate has a way of changing her best-laid plans. Adam Davison is willing to do anything to make his pregnant wife happy. He will face hell to have her home for the holidays. For Sherri and Adam, the holidays are a time of celebration and love, but this Christmas will be unlike any they have ever faced. When a horrible blizzard causes an automobile accident that puts the lives of those Sherri loves on the line, can a Christmas miracle save them? Excerpt: Looking over at Adam, I’m amazed that such a handsome man could love me. Stubble showed on Adam’s rugged face. I liked the way the short growth of beard rubbed on my face when he nibbled on my ears. Adam’s dark brown hair was cut short, emphasizing his deep blue eyes and strong nose. The small dimple on his chin made him seem more approachable and much less serious. His tall stature and muscular body always made me feel precious yet delicate, like a porcelain doll, but Adam never treated me like anything other than a desirable woman. “How are the roads? Do you think we can stop so I can use the bathroom? Your son is pushing on my bladder.” Wiggling in my seat, I tried to alleviate the uneasy pressure. Adam looked over at me with a dreamy expression on his face. His gaze settled on my stomach as it undulated. “Sure, I could use some coffee. How are you feeling? Little Pea looks active tonight.” “I’m okay except for the kicks to the bladder. I swear he’s practicing his temper tantrums so he has them right when he comes out. Oh Ricky, we are in so much trouble,” I replied with a silly high pitched whiney Lucille Ball-type voice, then smiled. I am thankfully in the third trimester of my pregnancy. I’d passed the dangerous stage where many women miscarry as well as the dreaded morning sickness phase that sucks the very life out of a body. Now I had abundant energy and looked forward to finally getting ready to meet our son. We still had two more months to go but I already felt like a beached whale, not to mention the walking with a waddle. Adam loved talking to my stomach, he’d even been reading storybooks to our peanut each night. Adam and I had eloped to Hawaii five years ago during our Christmas vacation. We’d kept our wedding private, only us. Today we are closer than most married couples, enjoying the same things, especially our cottage home on the Huron River, old movies, television shows, and snuggling up with a blanket on those cold Michigan nights. While we both loved our families, neither one of us enjoyed traveling which became the basis for the fight. I’d won the the argument after the announcement of my father’s recent diagnosis. I’d spent hours on the phone with my sister, then on the internet gathering information on Alzheimer's. The dementia had already begun to kick in when Dad accidentally set fire to his home. Luckily, Syndie had already moved in with Dad and got him out of the house in time. My need for family had only become stronger since I’d learned about my pregnancy and the arrival of the first grandson.. I didn’t want my baby to miss out on his remaining grandparent. Fear about my father never getting to meet or know my little peanut became a constant in my mind. Adam and I had distanced ourselves from our families over the years. We were always so happy spending time with just each other, we’d just never considered what those choices did to others. Having a baby changes things. My sister’s wedding invitation plus my dad’s diagnosis, well, both convinced me that we needed to get back to Ohio. Christmas seemed like a perfect excuse. Buy Link: Secret Cravings Store Amazon B&N Christmas Trees. 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Kimberly Mayberry
12/19/2013 02:42:40 pm
We never had mistletoe anywhere I went, but I sure would have taken advantage of it if a hot guy was ANYWHERE near it! LOL Thank you for sharing your Christmas memories and the awesome excerpt! Thank you for also being in the hop! kbinmich AT yahoo DOT com
Melissa Keir
12/19/2013 11:28:46 pm
Thanks Kimberly. Hot guys do deserve some kisses!
Kathy O
12/19/2013 03:03:38 pm
I put mistletoe up each year going to our bedroom, therefore, my husband can't miss it, so I guess that is how I steal kisses. Thanks for th hop and giveaway. Koala571 (at) msn (dot) com
Melissa Keir
12/19/2013 11:29:48 pm
Kathy, you have a devious mind! I love it!!
Sue Sattler
12/19/2013 03:47:44 pm
We don't put mistletoe up anymore, I'm not sure why. I need to get some so I can catch my grandkids under it. They would love it, they're still little so I can get away with it! :D
Melissa Keir
12/19/2013 11:30:32 pm
Sue, grandkids are perfect for catching kisses from. They might even like making their own little mistletoe!
Debby
12/19/2013 09:32:40 pm
We had mistletoe. Such fun!!
Melissa Keir
12/19/2013 11:35:44 pm
Thank you Debby for coming by!!
Donna L Hokanson
12/20/2013 01:52:38 am
Yes I got caught at a X-mas party one year.
Melissa Keir
12/20/2013 05:22:29 am
Donna, that sounds like an interesting story! 12/20/2013 03:40:36 am
I'm a Mistletoe "virgin"! I've never seen real mistletoe or had anyone hang fake mistletoe in their homes.
Melissa Keir
12/20/2013 05:24:39 am
Cindi, you certainly should give it a try! Some people can't find mistletoe and put up some other greenery like parsley! It's all about capturing those kisses!
Renee Bennett
12/20/2013 07:47:20 am
I got caught while in high school and did some catching of my own with some hot guys while in college. LOTS OF FUN!
Melissa Keir
12/20/2013 11:01:56 am
Oh Renee, what stories you can tell... really tell!!
Karen Origer-Greco
12/20/2013 09:40:32 am
Always thought it would have been fun to have been caught under the mistletoe by a cute guy.
Melissa Keir
12/20/2013 11:02:37 am
Why don't more nightclubs and bars put these up? It might get some action! 12/20/2013 11:17:32 am
I don't really remember hanging up mistletoe growing up, or at least, if we did it was purely decorative, no smooching was happening, lol.
Melissa Keir
12/20/2013 01:02:15 pm
Just think of the fun... An updated holiday version of 5 minutes in heaven...
Melissa Keir
12/20/2013 01:02:53 pm
You're welcome Jeanine! Best of luck!
Dovile
12/21/2013 01:50:39 am
No, I haven't been caught under mistletoe yet. Thank you for the chance!
Melissa Keir
12/21/2013 10:59:45 am
I'm sorry that you haven't had that chance. Best of luck on here!
Kathryn Merkel
12/21/2013 09:08:22 am
My mom has this plastic bell with fake mistletoe that is always hung in the doorway during Christmas. I've lost count of the number of times people have been caught under it, including me.
Melissa Keir
12/21/2013 11:00:58 am
It's a fun tradition! :)
ghwasd
12/21/2013 09:46:43 am
Sadly no good memories of mistletoe. Time to start some!!
Melissa Keir
12/21/2013 11:02:44 am
I agree! You can even make your own!
Eva Millien
12/21/2013 10:48:14 am
Great excerpt! Unfortunately I have never been under the mistletoe. Thanks for sharing the hop and the giveaway. Wishing everyone a wonderful and magical holiday season! evamillien at gmail dot com
Melissa Keir
12/21/2013 11:03:14 am
Thanks Eva. You too! :)
amy bowens
12/21/2013 01:17:23 pm
Wow I never knew how mistletoe came to be! Thanks for sharing this interesting fact unfortunately I have never been kissed under the mistletoe. Here's still hoping that some hot hunk will show up one day! Thanks and have a Merry Christmas!
Melissa Keir
12/22/2013 12:26:41 pm
Here's to you finding that hot hunk and not having to wait for the mistletoe!
BookAttict
12/21/2013 01:41:50 pm
No mistletoe experiences!
Melissa Keir
12/22/2013 12:27:25 pm
Ahhh then you need to get one and practice for your first time! Happy Holidays!
Jennifer Johansen
12/21/2013 04:21:20 pm
My parents weren't exactly the festive type when I was growing up, so there was no mistletoe. I can see hanging it in our house now, though, for the kids. They've reached the "I don't like kisses" stage (5 and 2), so I'll take any excuse. ;P
Melissa Keir
12/22/2013 12:28:10 pm
That's cute Jennifer. My youngest used to call kisses..."I stink on you". I won't ever let him forget it, even now that he's 21.
bn100
12/21/2013 05:12:24 pm
Nope
Melissa Keir
12/22/2013 12:30:46 pm
There's still time! Don't give up yet! Happy Holidays!
Ashfa
12/22/2013 12:20:43 am
Nope no mistletoe experience here.. :D Thanks for the giveaway and happy holidays!!!
Melissa Keir
12/22/2013 12:30:08 pm
As long as you have lips, you still have a chance! Happy Holidays!
katie amanda
12/22/2013 10:28:02 am
I haven't had many encounters with mistletoe. I like learning about the history behind the tradition...thank you!
Melissa Keir
12/22/2013 12:28:56 pm
There's so much more but I didn't want to bore everyone! :) Happy Holidays!
Ashley Applebee
12/22/2013 12:29:02 pm
No mistletoe memories for me :( Hopefully in the future though!
JanD
12/22/2013 02:28:28 pm
I've never been under a mistletoe.
Juana Esparza
12/22/2013 03:09:42 pm
I have no mistletoe stories to tell. The only time I've seen mistletoe is on tv/movies. 12/22/2013 07:49:54 pm
Never been caught under mistletoe, cause we've never really hung any.
Stacey
12/23/2013 01:29:10 am
Surprisingly after thinking about, I've never been stuck under the mistletoe! LOL
BookLady
12/23/2013 03:26:55 am
Mistletoe is a lovely holiday tradition for in our family. Thanks for sharing your Christmas memories. Wishing you a Very Merry Christmas!
Krista
12/23/2013 06:54:42 am
I don't think I've ever even seen mistletoe in real life. Only in movies. Thanks for the giveaway!
Catherine
12/23/2013 03:37:10 pm
We have natural mistletoe on our property. Love it! Comments are closed.
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